Holy Spirit Catholic School
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Cranbrook QLD 4814
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Email: crnbrk@tsv.catholic.edu.au
Phone: 07 4779 4255
Fax: 07 4779 7580

Pastoral Chaplain's Chat

3 Ways to Shift Discipline from "Carrots & Sticks" to Something Better...

Chap Chat

Here are a few simple steps to help you respond positively:

1. Manage Expectations

Is your child struggling because they don't want to do something, or because they can't? It's really unfair to punish them for something they're not yet able to do. And offering a reward isn't much better. Always think about your child's individual needs and their stage of development.

2. Look After Yourself

You won't be able to help your child effectively if you're exhausted, stressed, or feeling overwhelmed. We often become more controlling (by using punishments or rewards) when we're not feeling our best. Make self-care a priority so you can be there for your child.

3. Stay Balanced

Remember: high emotions = low intelligence. If you can keep your own emotions in check, you'll always do a better job handling challenging behaviours and talking effectively with your child.

Carrots & sticks

Carrots & Sticks

Better Ways to Build Boundaries with Your Kids

Wednesday 18 June
7pm AEST

Individual Access $49 each (also included in the Happy Families Membership)

Well Being

? Self-Compassion & Grounding 

  • Hand on heart and deep breath while waiting for the kettle to boil.

  • Look in the mirror and say one kind thing to yourself.

  • Stretch or roll your shoulders for 30 seconds between tasks.

  • Sip your tea/coffee mindfully—focus on the warmth and taste for one quiet moment.

  • Gratitude whisper: name one thing you're grateful for (even in chaos).